Indefinite Spousal Support What is it? When might it end?
Indefinite spousal support can sound very scary for the person who will be paying spousal support. For the person receiving support, it may sound like it is permanent. But both parties need to understand that indefinite spousal support means "until something changes." What are some changes that could lead to [...]
Collaborative Law: Not as Easy as You Think!
Collaborative Law: Not as Easy as You Think I am so lucky to share space with collaborative law guru Tonya Alexander of Alexander Law PC. I think collaborative law appeals to divorcing couples because they believe that it gives them more control over the outcome of their divorce. As Tonya [...]
Spousal Support in Oregon–is there a new 20% rule of thumb?
There are no spousal support guidelines. If your divorce case ends up in Court, Judges are all a little different. Spousal support can vary in a wide range based upon the Judge you get. In the past few years attorneys have been trying out this 20% rule of thumb since [...]
Stressful at home…. When can I move out…?
Many of my clients ask me when is it ok to move out of the family home? Is it ok to leave the kids? Is it ok to take the kids? How will I have money to rent an apartment? Do I have to help pay the mortgage on the [...]
Ten Do’s and Don’ts when Going Through Your Divorce
1. Don’t Panic You can get wrapped up in thinking of all kinds of things that you are afraid of. The most common fears are that you won’t have enough money, or that you won’t be able to see your children often. Most of these things are not going to [...]
Quotes From My Trainer
QUOTES FROM MY TRAINER I have an amazing personal trainer, Nicole Buth, who trains at the Cornell 24 hour fitness close to my office. Last year, she trained for many months for a fitness competition. Every morning I would wake up to see her posted quotes of inspiration on Instagram. [...]